Recently, my mom blew up about the fact that something wasn’t paid for that she doesn’t even pay and I am just thinking to myself, “Why are you getting angry?” Obviously there is nothing to do now other than to pay the late fee. My mom just kept complaining about how it wasn’t paid and I just don’t understand why someone would get so angry about something that doesn’t even really concern her. Just set an alarm and remember to do it next time, multiple ones even. Currently, I am just annoyed that my mother is getting all riled up over something that doesn’t concern her. Calm down. Take a chill pill. Move on.
If you can’t relate to that situation above you can always think about someone confiding in you and saying trash about their ex-boyfriend because he cheated on your friend or something. You can’t be angry for that person and you can give all the advice you want but it isn’t any of your business because even though you may have gone through a break up, you are not in their shoes and should just be there to listen because maybe they just need to voice their thoughts and feelings. However, that does not mean that you just give them crap or stay on your phone the whole time. Listen.